<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rss xmlns:xsi="http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema-instance" xmlns:xsd="http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema" version="2.0"><channel><title>Trust me, I'm an accountant! Comments - Brought to you by JoeUser</title><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/rss/comments</link><copyright>© 2006 - 2008 Stardock Corporation. All rights reserved.</copyright><description>Blogging about forensic accounting, my life, and anything else I feel warrants it.  Disclaimer:  Anything found on this site is not intended to be professional advice.  If you are in need of professional advice, please contact a professional to give it.</description><language>en-us</language><pubDate>2008-07-05T09:01:11</pubDate><lastBuildDate>2008-07-05T09:01:11</lastBuildDate><docs>http://cyber.law.harvard.edu/rss/rss.html</docs><generator>Stardock Rss Generator v1.0, Andrew Powell</generator><managingEditor>info@stardock.com</managingEditor><webMaster>apowell@stardock.com</webMaster><item><author>lulapilgrim</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[Jy, Sorry for getting off track here with responding to Leauki's #42 question which was quoted from somewhere??? But....you're the boss man and I'll gladly conform...<br/><br/>Flood of prayers....I like that! <br/><br/> <br/><br/>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>lulapilgrim on Prayer</title></item><item><author>lulapilgrim</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">well the traditional way is world-wide flood, not local flood.</div><br/><br/>In Genesis 6-9 we are told about the worldwide Flood that occurred around 1,656 years after Creation. The Flood affected the entire world and was so dramatic it was mentioned in later records, stories and legends. <br/><br/><br/><br/><br/>KFC POSTS: <div class="Article_Quote">Well it seems two ways they found out.  One was the birds were dropping seed as they flew over these spots.  Another was while the vegetation was destroyed from above, underneath deep down the roots were not totally destroyed and little by little the grass and plants started to grow up from these roots deep underneath. <br/>God had taken care of it all.  He didn't miss a beat, either at St. Helens or the world-wide flood.</div><br/><br/>We know from the Genesis timetable that eventually the Flood waters abated. 8:11 tells us the second dove was sent out the second time and found the "olive leaf" (yikes! a live plant!!!), becasue "the waters were abated".  8:14---Noah waited until "the waters were dried from the earth" to remove the covering from the Ark. From the time that the covering of the Ark was removed to the day Noah and his family left the Ark, 57 more days went by when earth was adequately dry, Noah left. <br/><br/>Little by little similiar to Mt. St. Helens, grasses and plants began to grow.  ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>lulapilgrim on Prayer</title></item><item><author>lulapilgrim</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[ASaxyGirl posts: <div class="Article_Quote">I have never truly understood prayers for material wants...praying for a car, good grades, a job, and so forth. Material wants are within our power. We can effect the outcome based upon our actions. What resounds within me are the prayers for understanding, compassion, forgiveness...which could also be argued as wants. Many of my prayers come out of meditation, which I do not practice nearly enough. When my mind is quiet I am able to not only "hear" but also receive answers to my prayers through understanding. When I am quiet my Buddha nature is free.</div><br/><br/>As far as praying for temporal blessings, such as health, success, fortune or material things, God may grant our prayer by denying us what we ask. If sickness were to bring us closer to God, and health make us forgetful of Him, if failure were to humble us and success puffs us up with pride and arrogance, if peverty were to make us followers of the Poor Christ (2 Corinthians 8:9), and riches cause us to abandon the Faith, ought not God in His Infinite Mercy and love refuse what we in our ignorance ask for?<br/><br/>According to Scripture if we pray humbly and perseveringly for spiritual blessings that will ensure our soul's salvation---the grace to resist temptation, the pardon of sin, and the grace of final perseverance---God will infallibly answer our prayer. <br/><br/><div class="Article_Quote">Prayer is powerful.</div><br/><br/>Praying for others is a spiritual work of mercy. People all over the world give testimony to the power of prayer.  Sometimes in situations all we can do is pray...praying comes under the commandment to love. ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>lulapilgrim on Prayer</title></item><item><author>KFC Kickin For Christ</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p><div class="Article_Quote">I tend to prefer more traditional ways of interpreting the Bible.</div></p>
<p>well the traditional way is world-wide flood, not local flood.&nbsp;</p>
<p><div class="Article_Quote">(By the way, how did all those plants survive in the salt water for 40 days? They should've died and then all the animals would starve because there's no food.)</div></p>
<p>Well besides the fact that Noah had plants and such on board with him I also believe we can, once again look at Mt. St. Helens as an example.</p>
<p>When that Volcano blew up, with all the ash, lava and water that jumped out of Spirit Lake, all vegetation was destroyed.&nbsp; Everything as far as the eye could see was destroyed.&nbsp; Even every single blade of grass.</p>
<p>But little by little things started to sprout up again.&nbsp; All over the place there were signs that we were not to walk off designated pathways because every single piece of new vegetation was important.&nbsp; How did things start to regrow from nothing?</p>
<p>Well it seems two ways they found out.&nbsp; One was the birds were dropping seed as they flew over these spots.&nbsp; Another was while the vegetation was destroyed from above, underneath deep down the roots were not totally destroyed and little by little the grass and plants started to grow up from these roots deep underneath.&nbsp;</p>
<p>God had taken care of it all.&nbsp; He didn't miss a beat, either at St. Helens or the world-wide flood.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>KFC Kickin For Christ on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Leauki</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p><div class="Article_Quote"></p>
<p>I suppose I base it on that "Divine Plan" aspect.&nbsp; If there's a plan,
He ain't gonna change&nbsp;it because some humans asked him to.</p>
<p></div></p>
<p>That I disagree with. I don't see how it is given that G-d's plan will not be changed by G-d based on human input.</p>
<p>(I also disagree on a more fundamental level that G-d's plan is something He pursues and we live with. I believe that G-d's plan relies on us to do His will.)</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><div class="Article_Quote"></p>
<p>Didn't His
plan cause him to destroy some cities&nbsp; [...]?</p>
<p></div></p>
<p>It is said that He did listen to prayers at that point.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><div class="Article_Quote"></p>
<p>(By
the way, how did all those plants survive in the salt water for 40
days?&nbsp; They should've died and then all the animals would starve
because there's no food.)</p>
<p></div></p>
<p>I know you are directing the question at the Christians, but the answer is of course that the LAND, not the EARTH was flooded and that hence there was enough plant life on earth left (and cangaroos).</p>
<p>Many Christians seem to believe that taking the Bible literally (usually in an English translation) is the correct way to read it, except for that one word "eretz", which means "earth" as in "land" and not "earth" as in "world" or "planet".</p>
<p>I tend to prefer more traditional ways of interpreting the Bible.</p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Leauki on Prayer</title></item><item><author>foreverserenity</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Jythier, very enlightening and informative!&nbsp; I remember to pray on a daily basis, even if it's one sentence!&nbsp;</p>
<p>Insightful from me!</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>foreverserenity on Prayer</title></item><item><author>ASaxyGirl</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[Hi Jythier...  Man, being sick is a time sink.  My head is sorta functioning now, at least the incessant pounding from the viral induced headache has subsided.  <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Tongue.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"> <br/><br/>Prayer...  I remember going to bible study and always feeling so awkward when it came to prayer.  Part of that feeling stemmed from my lack of eloquence when compared to the others in the group.  The other part emanated from my core belief that my relationship with God was private.  My prayers have not changed significantly in content nor has my practice.  Of course, the major difference is today I do not pray specifically to a deity.<br/><br/>I have never truly understood prayers for material wants...praying for a car, good grades, a job, and so forth.  Material wants are within our power.  We can effect the outcome based upon our actions.  What resounds within me are the prayers for understanding, compassion, forgiveness...which could also be argued as wants.  Many of my prayers come out of meditation, which I do not practice nearly enough.  When my mind is quiet I am able to not only "hear" but also receive answers to my prayers through understanding.  When I am quiet my Buddha nature is free.<br/><br/>Here's a real example of a prayer for me...  The wife of one of my closest friends has breast cancer.  When it was first detected it was early and it seemed all the cancer was caught, removed and any residual malignant cells were eradicated with chemo and radiation.  She was pretty young when diagnosed, not even 40, so breast cancer is usually much more aggressive.  Over the past holidays the cancer came back, even worse.  I don't want her to die from this malignancy.  I don't want him to be a widow.  These are my wants.  I don't pray for my wants or even a specific outcome.  What I pray for is understanding.  There is a message...meaning...in what is happening to both of them.  Medically she is in good hands and all that Western medicine has to offer is being done.  Are there answers in complementary therapies like acupuncture, nutrition, Eastern traditional medicine?  Possibly, but that is something for them to explore.  I pray for understanding and for their understanding of what is to be learned from this life experience.  I pray for understanding to remove my attachment to my wants for them.  I pray for the eradication of suffering.<br/><br/>Maybe this is contradictory, but I also engage in specific prayer they have requested.  They are Catholic and have asked for my prayers in that tradition.  I do not have a disbelief in God or the saints, so I light a candle and pray.  Some would argue that my prayers are worthless because I am not Christian.  Maybe, but better to have added to the voices and not be counted than to stay silent and miss being one to help.  Prayer is powerful.  Some research has been done regarding the power of prayer in healing.  There are proponents for and those who have pointed out notable holes in the research methods or conflict of interest with the researchers.  At this point, I am inclined to lean towards the side that says prayer is beneficial to healing.  There is a potential benefit, though it may all be psychological, and the only loss (which I don't consider a loss) is time.<br/><br/>Jyhier, don't discount your knowledge.  There is wisdom in your words.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>ASaxyGirl on Prayer</title></item><item><author>lulapilgrim</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[I guess we can all agree that meditation has been around for a long time and its various techniques have been evolved for the purpose of making it more effective.  <br/><br/>Catholic contemplatives have practiced meditation as an exercise specifically ordered to spiritiual improvement ever since the early 1600s.  Catholics understand meditation as a form of mental prayer differing from vocal prayer becasue it is mainly, if not exclusively, an interior activity aimed at arousing the will to acts toward perfection for the exercise of each talent that God has given. <br/><br/><br/><br/> ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>lulapilgrim on Prayer</title></item><item><author>KFC Kickin For Christ</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Whenever I think of meditation I think of this wonderful picture of this practice&nbsp;that God gives us......</p>
<p>"Blessed is the man that walks not in the counsel of the ungodly nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful.&nbsp; But his delight is in the law of the LOrd and in his law does he <strong>meditate</strong> day and night. And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water that brings forth his fruit in his season, his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he does shall prosper."&nbsp;</p>
<p>I take this to mean that when we meditate on God's word than those other things will not have a hold on us.&nbsp; When we let go of all the stuff that wants to weigh us down, we are more peaceful, serene and better able to serve both God and man.&nbsp; We find ourselves spiritually healthy and fruitful not to mention much happier than we'd ever imagine.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>KFC Kickin For Christ on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p><div class="Article_Quote">Jack Kornfeld once said that meditating is like training a puppy.</div></p>
<p>I like to rub my mind's belly until it's leg shakes. <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Wink.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"></p>
<p>~Zoo</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Prayer</title></item><item><author>OckhamsRazor</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Uh, I didn't read all the responses.&nbsp; And I'm not gonna...um...get into any debates here, yanno?&nbsp; I just wanted to let you know that meditation, to those that practice it for spiritual reasons, isn't about focus and emptying the mind.</p>
<p>My understanding is that it's a really simple premise.&nbsp; It's the same premise that all those "Inner Game of..." and "The Zen of..." books are about.&nbsp; Erasing that inside voice that has you second guessing yourself all the time.&nbsp; The premise is that you can't hear someone or something telling you the "truth" if you're running your mouth all the time.&nbsp; So meditators are seeking to shut down the subconscious "running of the mouth" in themselves so they can better perceive things clearly.</p>
<p>The purpose of meditation is to increase the clarity of your perception so that you can make decisions that aren't based on subconscious issues you might suffer from.&nbsp; It's the art of being totally quiet inside and out.</p>
<p>To make a parallel with the monotheistic religion of your choice, how are you supposed to hear what God is telling you if you do all the talking.&nbsp; At some point you stop thanking and asking for stuff and just listen, no?&nbsp; That's meditation at a very basic level.&nbsp; VERY basic, mind you.&nbsp; It's the equivalent of the kid that pushes a bowling ball between his legs down an alley with the gutters blocked when compared to a guy that bowls 300 games on a regular basis.&nbsp; To see how difficult real "listening" aka mediatation is, set an alarm clock for 30 minutes.&nbsp; Close your eyes and count your breaths to 10.&nbsp; Every breath you take in and blow out, the count goes up one.&nbsp; When you get to 10, start over.&nbsp; Do it for 30 minutes and watch how many times you forget what number you're on or how many times you realize you're thinking about something else and have stopped counting.&nbsp; It's usually because of some distraction.&nbsp; Your mind may wander to what's for dinner.&nbsp; You may hear a dog bark outside.&nbsp; You might start thinking about how Ock keeps promoting those damned pawns (Couldn't resist&nbsp; <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Ew.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle">  ) or you might be inclined to start talking with God again.&nbsp; But right at that moment, he might be trying to tell you something, but your mind is so full of what you think, there's no room for him to be heard.</p>
<p>Jack Kornfeld once said that meditating is like training a puppy.&nbsp; You sit it down in front of you and tell it to "stay."&nbsp; It gets up and runs across the room.&nbsp; You retrieve it and set it down and tell it to stay.&nbsp; It jumps up and licks your face.&nbsp; You set it down and tell it to stay.&nbsp; It goes and pees on the rug.</p>
<p>Such is the case with the untrained mind.&nbsp; It is easily distracted, and won't behave on your command.&nbsp; If you're one that believes a God is talking to you, then meditating should be in your plan of every day, because how otherwise are you going to get the puppy to sit long enough to hear when its master is telling it to "stay?"</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>OckhamsRazor on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">As far as the justice of God when it comes to these crimes a satisfactory explanation could scarcely be given were this life all there is. But it is not. God permits these things only because He knows that there is a future life where He will compensate all inequalities. In the meantime, He draws good out of these miseries for they teach men not to set their hopes on entirely upon this world as if there were no other and help to expiate the sins of mankind.  No one can be entirely happy here....but so in the next life.</div><br/><br/>That's certainly a Christian answer. <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Smile.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"><br/><br/><div class="Article_Quote">No, I've no power to threaten people with Hell...and furthermore it would be a sin for me to do so for surely wishing or hoping someone to Hell is hateful.</div><br/><br/>Good.  Very good.<br/><br/><div class="Article_Quote">Me too. People are simply fascinating.</div><br/><br/>With all their quirks, yes.  Learn something new everyday.<br/><br/>~Zoo]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Prayer</title></item><item><author>lulapilgrim</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p><div class="Article_Quote"> I like understanding people's rationale. ~Zoo </div></p>
<p>Me too. People are simply fascinating.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>lulapilgrim on Prayer</title></item><item><author>lulapilgrim</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Lula posts: <div class="Article_Quote">I'm Catholic and if someone asks me are you afraid of Hell? I say, of course I am. Nothing wrong with that.</p>
<p>Zoo posts: Perhaps if it's your own personal fear it's fine...but do you threaten others with it? Nonbelievers and the like? </div></p>
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<p>No, I've no power to threaten people with Hell...and furthermore it would be a sin for me to do so for surely wishing or hoping someone to Hell is hateful.</p>
<p>Rather, re: Hell, I tell them the truth as best as I can&nbsp;and &nbsp;let it settle in their craw.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>lulapilgrim on Prayer</title></item><item><author>lulapilgrim</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p><div class="Article_Quote">But each of us has in us that nature that says, "No, we don't need God, we can do it ourselves!"</div></p>
<p>True. They mimic Satan who said, I will not serve.</p>
<p>Zoo posts: <div class="Article_Quote">Although I can see how we survive without God...seeing as how I never see his presence or feel it. </div></p>
<p>If you can't see it right now at this point in your life, perhaps you'll just have to take other people's word for it....Every breath you take...everything that is about you is a gift from God. In the hot summer day when that fresh cooling breeze comes along and refreshes you...say thank you God. When you gaze at an incredible sunrise or sunset, say thank you God. When you see love freely given say thank you God.</p>
<p>Zoo posts: <div class="Article_Quote">Then we have all the horrible things that happen to innocent people, children even...where is God then? When a small child is kidnapped, molested, and murdered? He ain't a whole lot of help there is He?</div></p>
<p>Even with our limited capacity, we've aleardy seen there is a God. And here we see&nbsp;proposals which seemingly go along way toward His removal....NOT.</p>
<p>This litany of things you have described is evil...sin in the world. Evil is really the negation or privation of good. ANd yes, there is evil in the world, but there is also much good which can be accounted for by the existence of God.</p>
<p>We cannot have God when things seem to be alright and then annialiate Him when things&nbsp;go wrong. Viewing people as a whole we&nbsp;find that life is a mixture of good and evil, comfortable and uncomfortable...when one person is happy and content, another is miserable and suffering, poor, etc. We can't say that God exists for the happy ones and not for the poor suffering ones. When we see this uneven distribution&nbsp;with pain and suffering for some,&nbsp;God's providence has not failed. Man himself is at fault.&nbsp;</p>
<p>As far as the justice of God when it comes to these crimes a satisfactory explanation could scarcely be given were this life all there is. But it is not. God permits these things only because He knows that there is a future life where He will compensate all inequalities. In the meantime, He draws good out of these miseries for they teach men not to set their hopes on entirely upon this world as if there were no other and help to expiate the sins of mankind.&nbsp; No one can be entirely happy here....but so in the next life.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>lulapilgrim on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">I'm Catholic and if someone asks me are you afraid of Hell? I say, of course I am. Nothing wrong with that.</div><br/><br/>Perhaps if it's your own personal fear it's fine...but do you threaten others with it?  Nonbelievers and the like?  It's not a great way to conduct oneself if you're trying to get recruits.  <br/><br/>I'm not keen on being threatened or coerced into things.<br/><br/>I know you can counter with the "But God loves you" part...still there are two sides to this coin.  One side is, "I'm going to drop you like a stone into lava."...that's the one that bothers me...sure the, "Happy fluffy cloud bliss paradise super awesome fun heaven." side sounds good...but maybe I'm not always looking at the glass half full.<br/><br/><div class="Article_Quote">*sigh* I know you're antagonistic towards organized religion, Zoo, we ALL know</div><br/><br/>Yikes, take it easy...I'm just asking questions.  Figurin' out the faith, if you will.  I like understanding people's rationale. <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Smile.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"><br/><br/>~Zoo]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">God will NEVER force anyone to do anything.</div><br/><br/>Nor will he stop them.<br/><br/><br/>Then again...I suppose that's why the earth is fun, or horrifying depending on which end of the line you end up on.<br/><br/>~Zoo]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Prayer</title></item><item><author>lulapilgrim</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Jythier posts: <div class="Article_Quote">What'd the apostles do? </div></p>
<p>They said, "Lord, teach us to pray". Christ answered the request by by teaching us the most perfect prayer..the Lord's Prayer. It teaches us to hallow God's name, and to do God's will perfectly on earth as it is in Heaven. He also taught us to pray for temperal and spiritual favors too, such as grace to overcome temptation, the forgiveness of our sins and the grace of final perseverance.</p>
<p>Texas Wahine posts: <div class="Article_Quote">So if I'm not righteous, is my prayer a waste of time? How would one know if they are righteous? Despite my best efforts, I have never felt confident that I was righteous. </div>Jythier posts: <div class="Article_Quote">What'd the apostles do? </div></p>
<p>St.Matt 5 tells us He promised to receive our prayer when it came from a loving heart, "for if you know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father from Heaven give the good Spirit to those who ask Him?"</p>
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<p>Zoo posts: <div class="Article_Quote">Isn't it force to threaten us with hell at every little turn? Don't follow the rules and you burn forever in eternal hellfire...yeah, there's no fear or anything to go along with that, eh? I always thought that was a little weird. To say we have a choice when the only alternative to eternal happiness is eternal pain and anguish. Scare the Christians with hellfire, let'em choose. Doesn't that lead to a religion based on fear rather than love? That's a consequence I hear Christians spout off, "You'll go to hell if you don't believe." "You'll go to hell if you do that." and many variations. A lot of them focus on the negative. Catholic schools I hear are notorious for the "Going to Hell" threat.</div></p>
<p>I'm Catholic and if someone asks me are you afraid of Hell? I say, of course I am. Nothing wrong with that. It has a way of putting things in proper perspective too. Knowing Hell is a reality, any sane person will live so as to avoid going there. This is ordinary prudence.&nbsp; Take the example of a man leaping for his life off a railroad track as the train is coming. Do we say, you coward, you jumpted for your life for shear fear of that train?&nbsp; God gave us our reason that we might use it for our well being and it is quite reasonable to weigh both advantages and penalties attached to moral law. &nbsp;</p>
<p>Each of us is endowed with reason and is bound to exercise foresight. In life if you don't follow the rules, there's hell (of sorts) (consequences) to pay isn't there? Look...we are created as eternal beings....this life on earth is a pin prick in time compared to eternal life which we all have...either in eternal happiness or in eternal hellfire.</p>
<p>Since there is a future life, it has alot to do with morality and obeying the rules in this life.&nbsp;The future as such is a reasonable motive for present conduct. I refrain from eating certain foods for&nbsp;future indigestation will surely result later and so on and&nbsp;so forth. That is reasonable conduct. I try to refrain from morally wrong conduct becasue iot is wrong, it offends God,&nbsp;is a personal disgrace,&nbsp; and will wrack my whole future existence if I persist in it&nbsp; dying without repentance. All these motives are good. If the nobler motives fail to impress me in a given temptation, the thought or fear of Hell at least will give me pause to think and hopefully stop me.</p>
<p>The knowledge that retributation will follow violations of the moral law makes that law a real law. Could we say that all the penalties attached to the laws of the state are to the bad? Temptation to &nbsp;Crime is resisted everyday becasue of the thought of future penalties. In the next life the principle is the same.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>lulapilgrim on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Cedarbird</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">Nah...that never ends well, does it? Otherwise all the rape and murder would stop...but you know how it goes.</div><br/><br/>*sigh*  I know you're antagonistic towards organized religion, Zoo, we ALL know.  But let me just tell you, God will NEVER force anyone to do anything.  We all have the agency and the freedom to do what we choose.  We simply can't choose the consequences.  So yes, God created the pimp, but he didn't force the pimp to be a pimp.  Pimp-y chose that life all by his own self.<br/><br/><br/><div class="Article_Quote">St. Paul urges, "Pray without ceasing" and one might ask how can this possibly be done. But according to Corinthians and Eph. 2: 10-15,  the whole Christian life is a prayer of union with Christ in His Mystical Body....so that's pretty phenomonal.</div><br/><br/>To me, "pray without ceasing" tells me to always keep a prayer in my heart.  To always remember him.  I don't think it means be on your knees all day, head bowed, praying out loud, but to let God in on all aspects of your life.  I changed pronouns there.  Oops.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Cedarbird on Prayer</title></item><item><author>lulapilgrim</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p><div class="Article_Quote">Feel free to ask questions I can't answer or debate/discuss whatever I've written and completely outclass me intellectually. I don't really know much, except that I blathered on a great deal more than I usually do, so I probably got at least one thing right in that mess. </div></p>
<p>My, my you are so hard on yourself....it's a very good article especially your wrap up last paragraph.</p>
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<p>What seems to happen all too often is that we, in our weak and feeble nature, &nbsp;don't pray until the going gets rough.</p>
<p>I'd like to expand a little on what you've written.</p>
<p>St. Paul urges, "Pray without ceasing" and one might ask how can this possibly be done. But according to Corinthians and Eph. 2: 10-15, &nbsp;the whole Christian life is a prayer of union with Christ in His Mystical Body....so that's pretty phenomonal.</p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>lulapilgrim on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">But don't put people in danger just to prove God will protect them. Do not test the Lord your God.</div><br/><br/>Nah...that never ends well, does it?  Otherwise all the rape and murder would stop...but you know how it goes.<br/><br/>~Zoo]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Prayer</title></item><item><author>ASaxyGirl</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[Jythier, thank you for writing this.  I have a little better understanding of how prayer fits into your life and belief.  I enjoyed what you wrote.  There are some thoughts I would like to write but it is late and I'm battling a cold.  I will get back here tomorrow when my mind is fresh.  Ciao Bello!<br/><br/>PS. I do pray.  <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Wink.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"> <br/>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>ASaxyGirl on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">God is like a man who finds a pimp beating a prostitute, who then rescues the prostitute, and takes her back to his care. He nurses her back to health, and when she is well, he asks her to stay with him forever and be his wife.</div><br/><br/>Well if God picked up every prostitute being beaten by a pimp...he'd have a full house. <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Tongue.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"><br/><br/><br/>You neglect to say that God created the pimp in the first place....but...whatever. <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Wink.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"><br/><br/><div class="Article_Quote">God has mercy, but He also has wrath.</div><br/><br/>That may be an understatement.  He has homicidal rage. <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Smile.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"><br/><br/><div class="Article_Quote">he flooded the earth because no-one asked him not to!</div><br/><br/>That's horrifying thought, Jyth.  Must we ask everyday for God not to kill the entire planet again?  "Dear God, please don't kill us.  Thanks! <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Smile.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"> "<br/><br/><div class="Article_Quote">I don't know. Who are you?</div><br/><br/>Who are any of us?<br/><br/><div class="Article_Quote">I like to think God already protected my kids by giving me the wisdom not to send them into the woods alone.</div><br/><br/>Well you sure can sidestep a question, can't you?  That's commendable, I don't meet many people that can do that effectively.<br/><br/>~Zoo<br/><br/>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">No. We call an abusive relationship one where someone is being abused.</div><br/><br/>Psychological abuse is still abuse.<br/><br/>"Love and accept me or you're going to hell."<br/><br/>Well, I kinda have to love Him or I'm going to be screwed.<br/><br/><br/>Could be comparable to some psychopath saying:<br/><br/>"Love me or I'll beat you....for eternity."<br/><br/>Not a great set of options.<br/><br/>~Zoo]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Prayer</title></item><item><author>KFC Kickin For Christ</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p><div class="Article_Quote">Maybe I'm not remembering correctly. I thought it said somewhere that whenever two or more agree in prayer.. Oh well, I'll have to read the New Testament again. </div></p>
<p>Check out Matt 18 that's what I think you're referring to (most do) but it's about church discipline.&nbsp; There is corporate prayer in Acts when the 120 followers were waiting for the HS to come at Pentecost.&nbsp;</p>
<p><div class="Article_Quote">You notice how it all mentions fear is good? Isn't that strange? Love through fear...isn't that what we call an abusive relationship these days?</div></p>
<p>Good Question Zoo. .........</p>
<p>Jay?&nbsp; Your turn.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>KFC Kickin For Christ on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">Woohoo for Googling Bible studies!</div><br/><br/>You notice how it all mentions fear is good?  Isn't that strange?  Love through fear...isn't that what we call an abusive relationship these days?<br/><br/>~Zoo]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">But each of us has in us that nature that says, "No, we don't need God, we can do it ourselves!"</div><br/><br/>We do?  Well, that's news to me.  Although I can see how we survive without God...seeing as how I never see his presence or feel it.  Then we have all the horrible things that happen to innocent people, children even...where is God then?  When a small child is kidnapped, molested, and murdered?  He ain't a whole lot of help there is He?<br/><br/>Send your kid out in the woods and ask God to protect'em.  Would you do it?<br/><br/><br/><div class="Article_Quote">God's trying to tell you, "I want you to be with me forever, please! All you have to do is believe!" He's pleading for you, Zoo.</div><br/><br/>Who am I that God has to plead to me?  Would He lower himself so much as to beg a mere mortal to follow Him?  He has unlimited power, why would one such as He bow to the likes of us?  I saw not His pleading as He flooded the world...He merely said, "Screw it, you're all dead."  <br/><br/><div class="Article_Quote">If he wanted you to go to hell for disobeying, he would not have sent His son. He did that to rescue us, so we could be with Him forever. If he didn't want you there, He wouldn't have sent His son at all!</div><br/><br/>Why did He send His son?  Couldn't He have just said, "You know what, I'm forgiving you guys." and saved Jesus a whole hell of a lot of torture?<br/><br/>I don't see why sinless mortal blood had to be spilled for our sins...though it does tie into the yearly murder of the lamb thing.(God sure likes His blood.)  Anywho, being all powerful should allow you to...well, you know be kind of a cool guy and not send a human vessel to get the absolute crap beaten out of him then hung up on a stick to die.  In all honesty, that's being kind of a dick to Jesus.<br/><br/>~Zoo]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">We walked away from God,</div><br/><br/>Eve walked away...why do we have to make up for it so many years later?<br/><br/><div class="Article_Quote">He allowed sin because obedience by force is not obedience at all. He wants us to obey Him because we want to,</div><br/><br/>Isn't it force to threaten us with hell at every little turn?  Don't follow the rules and you burn forever in eternal hellfire...yeah, there's no fear or anything to go along with that, eh? <br/><br/>I always thought that was a little weird.  To say we have a choice when the only alternative to eternal happiness is eternal pain and anguish.  Scare the Christians with hellfire, let'em choose. <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/BigSmile.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"><br/><br/>Doesn't that lead to a religion based on fear rather than love?  That's a consequence I hear Christians spout off, "You'll go to hell if you don't believe." "You'll go to hell if you do that." and many variations.  A lot of them focus on the negative.  Catholic schools I hear are notorious for the "Going to Hell" threat.<br/><br/>You know, just a little contradiction's what I see.<br/><br/>~Zoo]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Prayer</title></item><item><author>KFC Kickin For Christ</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Prayer is the best weapon a Christian has.&nbsp; Well, at least I think so but we know he gave us full armour to rely on and all parts of our Christian discipline are important.&nbsp;&nbsp; But I agree Prayer is hard........I mean even the Apostles fell asleep.....how can we expect to do better....<img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Wink.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"></p>
<p>I'm glad you mentioned about Satan not wanting us to pray.&nbsp; WE have an example of that in Daniel.&nbsp; Prayer is the way we communicate with God.&nbsp;He hates that.&nbsp;&nbsp; I've heard it said by many that there is two things Satan hates the most, Christians in prayer and Christians in the Word.&nbsp; Both have to do with communication.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Where are you getting more than one Christian is needed for more effectiveness Jay?&nbsp; Anything special?&nbsp; Whenever I hear when two or three are gathered,&nbsp; it's usually not mentioned it has to do with church discipline.&nbsp;&nbsp; I'm thinking of Christ telling us to go privately (like in a closet) and pray and not be showy about it.&nbsp; But on the other hand corporate prayer is quite powerful, but not sure one is better than another.&nbsp; Both are useful.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>KFC Kickin For Christ on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">Well, God knows your will. He knows your will now, and in the future, and in the past.</div><br/><br/>Uhh...you just blew my mind...kinda.  I saw stars.<br/><br/>Still that's a very weird concept.  Why would God allow evil, then?  Couldn't he have prevented a lot of the horrible things in this world by sending down a holy finger and squishing some rather nasty individuals before they caused any problems?  <br/><br/>Or is because God likes us to experience hardship?  So He can consume our sweet tears of sorrow, because they give Him power. <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Smile.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"><br/><br/>What better way to make a baby cry then to give him candy and then take it away?<br/><br/>~Zoo]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>I always thought of prayer as more of a theraputic thing.&nbsp; I figure if God wants you to have something or not He'll do it regardless of whether you ask for it or beg for it to stop.</p>
<p>I suppose I base it on that "Divine Plan" aspect.&nbsp; If there's a plan, He ain't gonna change&nbsp;it because some humans asked him to.&nbsp; Didn't His plan cause him to destroy some cities and in fact the entire world?(By the way, how did all those plants survive in the salt water for 40 days?&nbsp; They should've died and then all the animals would starve because there's no food)&nbsp; So what's one prayer, eh?&nbsp; Now it may be useful in connecting...though I've never felt anything personally.&nbsp; That's why I tend to equate it with wishful thinking...but that's just me.&nbsp; I've always preferred action over prayer anyway.&nbsp; Prayer is hoping something happens or asking for it to happen...action is making it happen.</p>
<p>Then you've got the laws of probability to think about which technically dictate the world around you...but in the short term anything is possible.</p>
<p>Eh, I'd better stop before I get lost in my own head.</p>
<p>~Zoo</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Texas  Wahine</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</comments><description><![CDATA[I have always had issues with prayer.<br/><br/>The Bible continually states that God hears the prayers of the righteous.  <br/><br/>See:  Proverbs 15:29, James 15:16, 1 Peter 3:12<br/><br/>Despite the fact that all people are exhorted by Christians to pray, the Bible makes it clear that prayers of the RIGHTEOUS are the ones that are heard.<br/><br/>So if I'm not righteous, is my prayer a waste of time? How would one know if they are righteous?  Despite my best efforts, I have never felt confident that I was righteous.  <br/><br/>Therefore, were my prayers absorbed in the ether rather than making it to the ears of God?<br/><br/>Now, I have a basic and pretty fundamental disbelief in God(s) (and the supernatural) at this point.  I am open to a religious experience that would change my mind, but it would have to be pretty powerful at this point.  So I no longer pray since I do not believe there is anyone to pray TO.<br/><br/>It seems to me that the Christian God has a pretty sweet thing going in regards to prayer.  If you pray and ask for something (comfort, patience, health, safety for loved ones, a new car, help with a problem at work, whatever) and you gain what you asked for, then God is good and faithful and yay thank you God.  Many times what is asked for is only granted in a very loosely interpreted way but the Christian seems to be looking for something, anything to assign to God.  <br/><br/>However, if a Christian prays and there is absolutely  nothing that can even remotely be assigned to God, the Christian is then required to say, thank you God you know best, you said no in your wisdom OR it is my fault and my prayer was rejected because of my own failings as a person or Christian.<br/><br/>It's win-win for God.  He gets the glory but is blameless always.<br/><br/>It also seems that Christians use prayer as a crutch...a way of dealing with things when they get too intense.  I can't handle this God, you take it and I won't worry about it anymore.  I guess it's comforting to think some almighty being is looking after your interests, but to me it seems like just another method of dealing with difficulties like therapy or eating or working out or journaling or whatever.<br/><br/>I feel like many of the Christians I have known have used it as an excuse to not tend to their own affairs.  Of course those that DO tend to their own affairs while also seeking solace in prayer attribute the beneficial affects of their own work to the amazing power of God.<br/><br/>Ha, I just have issues with prayer.<br/><br/>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/302981</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Texas  Wahine on Prayer</title></item><item><author>Vinraith</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">My personal belief is that there are people with addictive personalities...my personal belief is that it's not an addictive personality so much as a repulsive society. the world out there is crazy, full of inhumanity and despair, and the people in it can be vindictive, petty, judgmental and small. a lot of time it's simply easier and less painful to stay in and keep to yourself, but that doesn't mean i think it's a good idea to do so.</div><br/><br/><br/>Some of us just find other people, even pleasant people, tiring. Time alone is time to relax and recharge, social activities can be fun but they take a lot out of me. Introverts make up about 50% of the population, we just keep quiet by and large. <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Smile.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"><br/><br/>As to the OP, the poster appears to have a rather serious guilt complex about having certain kinds of fun, apparently induced by his particular religious beliefs. I hope he works out a way for himself to have a pleasant time and feel good about it, though that may require a re-evaluation of what religion means in his life. I've always thought religious systems that require an underlying denial of one's humanity (like, for example, the desire to relax and have fun by oneself from time to time) weren't particularly healthy. <br/><br/>It's also very unfortunate that this particular set of value judgements is being reinforced by his wife. I can't imagine being married to someone that has no understanding of my interests nor respect for my hobbies. My wife, who plays some games but has no interest in others, is still a good enough person and partner to show an interest in things that are important to me (and I return that favor regarding hobbies of hers). ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Vinraith on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>Roxlimn</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[Perhaps you simply need to play the more social games.  Starcraft DotA is eminently social - it can't NOT be.  There's simply not as much fun playing against people you don't know or won't see or talk to.  Half the fun is getting together before and dissecting game events afterwards over snacks.<br/><br/>Counterstrike played casually in a shop is also very social.  Everything you've leveled at videogames, in fact, should more correctly be leveled against the Internet.  When video games were in arcades, people went into them to play, and they talked with other people who played, and watched people who were both worse and better than them - they talked about the games with other people sharing the same passion for the past time.<br/><br/>Heck, some legendary Tekken matchups in arcades were practically spectator sports.  In Korea, it IS a spectator sport.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Roxlimn on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>Keilworth</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[Either of you guys play ISC scrabble? Now THAT is a time-eater.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Keilworth on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>OckhamsRazor</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Heh, I saw this in the recent post list and thought "wtf?&nbsp; I read that a year ago, didn't I?"&nbsp; And sure enough...Lazarus, indeed <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Tongue.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"></p>
<p>I'll just add a bit here.&nbsp; Jythier and I matched up in online Chess over the last couple of days, and last night finished a game where he bested me at the end in a real nail-biter.&nbsp; I've been looking for a good place to give him a public respectful nod for his skillful play, and BOOM - here's this article again.&nbsp; Perfect.&nbsp; Consider that nod given <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Smile.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"></p>
<p>But to the subject, the game between Jythier and myself bore fruit - at least for me - I can't speak for him.&nbsp; Over the last year or so, we have disagreed on many many things.&nbsp; He's very religious, and I'm very not religious, and that of course will cause friction.</p>
<p>But the chess match erased all that for a bit and allowed us to just be two guys on common ground with common goals.&nbsp; The obvious goal - to win - I do not discount, but I really felt it was more important to both of us to just play well.&nbsp; I'll let him agree or disagree with that on his own.</p>
<p>We didn't speak much during the game - at least not with words (there is a chat function on the page the game is played out on) - but I felt it quite a social thing.</p>
<p>Now does that make a good argument for playing video games in general?&nbsp; Well, I think Chess is a little different.&nbsp; Had he and I been on opposite sides of a Team Fortress XBox 360 match, I'm not sure I'd have gotten the same thing out of it, but for now, I will say that online Chess is an exception to any <em>generic </em>rule about online gaming, and if there is one exception, it's enough to disprove a hypothesis.</p>
<p>In closing, thanks again for schooling me in a great game, J.&nbsp; I look forward to our next meeting on that common ground (which I shall probably get to as the weekend unfolds for me.)</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>OckhamsRazor on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">Apparently your vocabulary has increased! <br/><br/>So there you go, being productive in your leisure time...</div><br/><br/>And apparently I can't spell it right. <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Mad.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"><br/><br/>I need to proofread more.<br/><br/>But yeah, reading is productive...doesn't have to be, but it usually is...it's like a trick. <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Tongue.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"><br/><br/>~Zoo]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>shadrac1701</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">If your ministry is geared toward youth, how will you ever minister to them if you do not understand things from their view?Jesus got down on our level, became one of the people, a simple carpenter, a commoner, and ministered to people from the inside out. He called for us to be like Him in that we do the same, or we try to do the same.Please, do not misunderstand my words, I am simply voicing my opinion. Yes, I am a Christian, and yes, I play video games. I love video games. I have a talent for computers. I plan to use this talent for God, for Jesus, and for others. If it is not my place in life, then God will correct me. Until then, I do what I do, for God. I only wish to serve God to the best of my abilities, and in spite of the mistakes I make, I know God loves me.For the love of...whoops, almost stepped on a hypocrisy landmine there.What does religion have to do with video games? Firstly, the "Left Behind" video game was by all accounts TERRIBLE, and the books were worse (As it turns out, the Rapture does not EVER appear in the book of revelations...doesn't that make it blasphemy, technically?).  There is NO reason why religion should be in this thread (let alone species' general culture, but that's another debate) at all. Can we please be relevent here?Okay. Done ranting. Post-editorial apoloties if I offended anyone.Let me try to put this more eloquently: religion is too often used as a cover to hide otherwise unjustifiable beliefs behind. Video games are one of those cases. Please do not jeapordize your argument by assuming a simplistic mantle; there are far to many who would not appreciate your school of thought and will simply take your arguments as boons to their cause.Whoops, there are some torches, pitchforks, and inquisitors outside my door that i need to go see to...</div><br/> <br/>Ahem...My most humble apologies...but I have no clue what you are saying. What argument and what simplistic mantle? As said before, I am voicing my opinion...not voicing an argument.  <br/><br/>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>shadrac1701 on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>Zoologist03</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[<p><div class="Article_Quote">Why do you dispute this? Why do you feel reading fiction is not a waste of time? Reading fiction might even be worse! I do that too... all that time wasted... </div></p>
<p>Actually, I thought reading was a qunitessential way to go about increasing one's vocabulary, concentration, and comprehension.&nbsp; Fiction presents you with an alternate reality and a gripping storyline...so you learn and enjoy it.</p>
<p>Personally, I'd give up videogames before I ever gave up reading nice thick novels(good ones, anyway).&nbsp; I've even taken breaks from gaming to read.</p>
<p>Then again, I am a huge nerd.</p>
<p>~Zoo</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoologist03 on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>Zoomba</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[<p><div class="Article_Quote">Why do you dispute this? Why do you feel reading fiction is not a waste of time? Reading fiction might even be worse!
I do that too... all that time wasted... </div></p>
<p>I still don't see why leisure time must be productive.</p>
<p>I'm productive 8-10hrs a day at my job, and typically quite a few more at home doing chores, errands etc.&nbsp; I'm doing stuff the majority of my waking hours.&nbsp; I read, play video games etc to wind down, to let my mind and body relax a bit and decompress from the day.</p>
<p>If I had to be productive even in my leisure time, I'd go insane</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoomba on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>Roxlimn</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[I've heard that the increased capability Generation I has for computer operation grants them a significant advantage in operating unmanned vehicles - the new mode of warfare for the new century, so if nothing else, video games helps the new generation kill other people with greater facility.<br/><br/>It's also supposed to aid in learning the controls for laparoscopic surgery, robotic surgery, operating robots in industry like engineering and construction and surprisingly driving, though I have some doubts about the last one.<br/><br/>So clearly, since none of these activities have anything to do with productivity or getting saved, video games really are just for fun, and the capability and reflexes you get from gaming will only ever matter in gaming.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Roxlimn on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>Sodaiho</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[<p><div class="Article_Quote"> Generally I think video games are far more constructive than past offenders, like comics and TV, because they're interactive and many of them require some thought. The twitch variety have been shown to develop reflexes and hand eye coordination, whereas strategic games (like GalCiv) definitely promote problem solving and strategic thinking. </div></p>
<p>For the sake of what, however?&nbsp; I've heard this arguement before, but wonder when the gamers are ever going to use these increased skills and capacities other than in more gaming.&nbsp; As a school psychologist I found gaming a huge distraction, parents unwilling to supervise and involve themselves with children would plop them down in front of a game set or tv, for that matter, and be done with them. Of course, they were always the loudest screamers regarding the quality of their children's education at conferences.</p>
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<p>I am not against video games, notr against games in general.&nbsp; I love chess, for example, but I know these things take a huge amount of kid's time away from actrualk social interaction, real study skill development, or their ability to partner5 with parents in creating and maintaining a home.</p>
<p>iNTERESTING atricle J, thanks!&nbsp; Now, get back to that game we are playing online <img src="http://images.stardock.com/smiles/Wink.gif" border=0 align="absmiddle"></p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Sodaiho on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>Roxlimn</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[Technically, in terms of serving God and being saved and all, even work is ultimately pointless, since everything on Earth is destined to fall by the wayside and not matter.  All that matters is one's relationship with God, so why work?  Work is a waste of time and a dangerous distraction - the Bible clearly says that listening to the word of God is more important than petty industry.<br/><br/>So why even bother working, right?  Ultimately, it's all pointless.<br/><br/>Of course, it's not that simple.<br/><br/>I wouldn't presume to preach about the word of God, but as human activities go, playing video games serves a good deal of purposes, especially in my life.  I've made friends using video games as a focus activity, I've used it to de-stress or to try to ignore my pains and illnesses, and I've learned a fair bit of things about the world from video games.  Well, not directly, but the games inspired me to look for more credible sources.<br/><br/>Guitar Hero 3 has inspired more than one kid to actually take up the guitar, so if playing an instrument is at all worthwhile, then playing the game is at least worthwhile as an introduction to it, and it isn't as if one cannot "play" music on Guitar Hero with about as much facility as other people do videoke songs.<br/><br/>And it's not as hard on the ears, too.<br/><br/>Playing strategy games early on in life has taught me that persistence pays off, that details matter if you want to succeed, and that you need to learn from mistakes - yours and others'.  It also gives me a morale boost when I think that everything I'm doing is turning to ash and that everything I touch will be doomed to failure.<br/><br/>Of course, one calls upon faith in God as well, but there's really nothing like a "fake" victory to get you going.  Yes, I know it's a game, but success in games makes me feel good and improves my mood.  It doesn't have to be a video game, either, but video games are more convenient and accessible.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Roxlimn on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>Archonsod</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[To be honest, there's few activities you can do which would give the brain such a thorough workout as a modern videogame. You're dealing with 3D space, abstractions, pattern recognition and a host of other things generally unavailable without casting yourself into a deep ocean or space.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Archonsod on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>Zoomba</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>As a life-long gamer, and now someone who gets to work on video games as part of my job, I have to disagree with a key point to your argument: That an activity in which you do not accomplish anything real is a waste of time, that even your leisure time must somehow be productive.</p>
<p>In this regard, reading fiction is as poor a use of time as playing video games.&nbsp; You spend hours and hours at it, and when you're finished you have not accomplished anything real.&nbsp; Spend 8 hours reading a good book.&nbsp; Those 8 hours are gone and you have nothing to show for it.</p>
<p>But really, you're not so much arguing that video games are a waste of time, you're arguing that when life's priorities become reshuffled, video games should be the first to go in favor of family, job, religious calling etc.&nbsp; If there is time in your life to fulfill your responsibilities AND game, then great.&nbsp; If you're ignoring important work to play games though, that's a problem.&nbsp; And the same can be said for any hobby.</p>
<p>Substitute "video games" with "watching football", "playing poker", "mountain climbing" etc and it all works out the same.&nbsp; Targeting video games specifically is a bit unfair.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Zoomba on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>foreverserenity</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">The larger question is what are we here for?Are we here for pleasure?Or is there a greater purpose for being here?In a society where basic needs are met when you can play on the computer ,go to a movie, have access to copious amounts of food and such it is possible to spend a greater portion of your time investing in such activities.And I won't even mention the TV which can suck up time</div><br/><br/>Oh yeah, both games and TV sucks up our times!  It is good fun and sometimes enlightening!  Plus my son would give me all the arguments as to why and how useful being a gamer is!LOL!   And I would get into it about how TV helps me to unwind!lol!<br/><br/><br/>Great article Jythier!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>foreverserenity on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>MarshallONeil</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[Did somebody spill Worcestershire sauce on the server again?<br/><br/><img onload="if(Sd.ImageResizer) Sd.ImageResizer.createOn(this);" src="http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/1/14/Southpark_ep107_2.jpg"/>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>MarshallONeil on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>Keilworth</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote">  If your ministry is geared toward youth, how will you ever minister to them if you do not understand things from their view?Jesus got down on our level, became one of the people, a simple carpenter, a commoner, and ministered to people from the inside out. He called for us to be like Him in that we do the same, or we try to do the same.Please, do not misunderstand my words, I am simply voicing my opinion. Yes, I am a Christian, and yes, I play video games. I love video games. I have a talent for computers. I plan to use this talent for God, for Jesus, and for others. If it is not my place in life, then God will correct me. Until then, I do what I do, for God. I only wish to serve God to the best of my abilities, and in spite of the mistakes I make, I know God loves me.</div><br/><br/>For the love of...whoops, almost stepped on a hypocrisy landmine there.<br/><br/>What does religion have to do with video games? Firstly, the "Left Behind" video game was by all accounts TERRIBLE, and the books were worse (As it turns out, the Rapture does not EVER appear in the book of revelations...doesn't that make it blasphemy, technically?).  There is NO reason why religion should be in this thread (let alone species' general culture, but that's another debate) at all. Can we please be relevent here?<br/><br/>Okay. Done ranting. Post-editorial apoloties if I offended anyone.<br/><br/>Let me try to put this more eloquently: religion is too often used as a cover to hide otherwise unjustifiable beliefs behind. Video games are one of those cases. Please do not jeapordize your argument by assuming a simplistic mantle; there are far to many who would not appreciate your school of thought and will simply take your arguments as boons to their cause.<br/><br/>Whoops, there are some torches, pitchforks, and inquisitors outside my door that i need to go see to...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Keilworth on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>Death_By_Beebles</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>I think that the title for this blog article was more for shock value than anything; I didn't really find any good reasons as to why games are addicting and anti-social.</p>
<p>Perhaps for you, they may be. But for many people, gaming is an apex of social activity. And while some people are addicted to games (I'm not going to even try to argue that they aren't), there are some people addicted to the internet, to reading, to bubbles or balloons or tobacco. Addiction is the problem here, not the game.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>Death_By_Beebles on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item><item><author>shadrac1701</author><comments>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</comments><description><![CDATA[<div class="Article_Quote"><br/>Video games allow a person to feel as if they have accomplished something without doing anything.<br/>  That's why a lot of gamer guys want to date a gamer girl - because she is more likely to give him the respect he doesn't deserve.  <br/><br/>So I waste time with them instead of hanging out with my family, doing work, or spending time with God or on ministry.<br/><br/>You may say, "But I play video games and I do all those other things too."  I say to you, are you doing those things while playing video games?<br/><br/>  The only thing left is God and ministry.  The only way I can do ministry through video games is to play multi player games, so all single player games are out.  And God wants me out there doing real things for real people.  So even multi player games are out.<br/><br/> But really, I could have just as much fun playing with my son, hanging out with my wife, talking to God, or doing ministry.  </div><br/><br/><br/>First of all, I thank you for your post. However, I disagree. Most of today's youth are into video games. If your ministry is geared toward youth, how will you ever minister to them if you do not understand things from their view?<br/>Jesus got down on our level, became one of the people, a simple carpenter, a commoner, and ministered to people from the inside out. He called for us to be like Him in that we do the same, or we try to do the same.<br/>Please, do not misunderstand my words, I am simply voicing my opinion. Yes, I am a Christian, and yes, I play video games. <br/><br/>I love video games. I have a talent for computers. I plan to use this talent for God, for Jesus, and for others. If it is not my place in life, then God will correct me. Until then, I do what I do, for God. I only wish to serve God to the best of my abilities, and in spite of the mistakes I make, I know God loves me.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="True">http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</guid><link>http://jythier.joeuser.com/article/145310</link><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:01:12 -0400</pubDate><pubDateParsed>2008-07-05T09:01:12</pubDateParsed><title>shadrac1701 on Video Games Are Anti-Social and Addictive</title></item></channel></rss>